Homeschool Mental Health Day

Monday, October 12th, 2009 | Thoughts

To say it’s been a stressful few weeks is an understatement. We’ve lost loved ones, dealt with job stress, strained relationships, unexpected house repairs, all while God is working on our hearts and preparing us to make some changes. As I write this, my husband is attending an out-of-state funeral for his grandpa, the third grandparent he has lost in two months.

Today, I woke up with a massive to-do list, needing to make preparations for receiving my mother-in-law tonight, homeschool with the kids and get caught up on the things that I let slide over the weekend. Good thing my to-do list is on a dry-erase board!

Instead of struggling out of bed, I went back to sleep. The kids got their own breakfast and let me rest. Nice. After I got up and started laundry, I decided we needed to just take the day off from business as usual. We needed some time for our bodies and minds to recuperate. So without further ado, here is how to have a “mental health day” while still homeschooling.

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1. Close the curtains so none of your neighbors sees the chaos in your living room. This step is really easy if you still haven’t opened the curtains from last night. Admire the sunlight streaming through cheap cotton. Science, check.

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2. Let your kids go crazy with the playdough. Have them find every tiny plastic toy in your house and dump it on the table. Art, check.

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3. While you’ve got out the playdough, encourage 5th-century-barbarian-attack re-enactments with Polly Pockets, knights and some plastic army guys. History, check.

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4. Rummage through the refrigerator and see what you can come up with for lunch in under 30 seconds. Decide on pepperoni, cheddar cheese and crackers. Justify it by remembering that these crackers are ORGANIC. Sprint up the stairs with three plates to hungry, waiting children. Watch as children jump up and down with excitement about eating pepperoni on a plate. Physical education, check.

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5. Let children eat “lunch” in laundry closet. Give them two flashlights and some blankets and let them go to town. Admire their ability at so quickly figuring out how to fit three people in such a small space. Math, check.

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6. Set out small pile of reading material, choosing books with colorful covers, where possible. Take a picture of it, because it looks so pretty all stacked up on the counter. Decide it looks too nice to mess with and read aloud from a couple of library books instead. Reading, check.

7. Survey the mess that is now your house, and decide that you still have 5 hours before anyone can possibly show up at your front door. Pour a cup of hot tea, send the kids off to quiet time and go hide out with a book.

Happiness, check.

6 Comments to Homeschool Mental Health Day

Gabi
October 12, 2009

I’m so sorry about all the losses in your family, Aja. Life can be sometimes too much to handle…

But I’m happy that you can look at all those troubles from the other side and don’t loose a sense of humor. Your post made me smile – yes, we can close the curtains time to time and just enjoy the life as it is without an extra stress. You go, girl!!! :)

You are a super mom!!! xxx

Heather
October 13, 2009

Sometimes it really pours, doesn’t it? Looks like you’ve found a great way to grab all that is important and huddle under a good umbrella. :)

I am currently relishing the book you sent me – reading little by little so as not to miss any hushed lessons I might otherwise skip through… thanks again, friend.

Kelsey
October 15, 2009

Im so sorry for your loss. Hope the Lord pours out his blessings soon!

Julia
October 16, 2009

i’m sorry. even though i just a kid i can understand! sound like what my used to do with us!

Julia
October 16, 2009

i’m sorry. even though i just a kid i can understand! sound like what my used to do with us! good memories :)

Nancy Kourmoulis
October 18, 2009

So sorry for your recent losses. Thanks for the mental health break. I school five and some days, well, we just close the curtains and stay in our jammies.